As I remember it, Chris was not interested. Or not interested in the terms. She had a good thing going and didn't want to give it up. I had some good sources at the time and got the feeling that the university was going for a proven head coach. To be honest, I was a Chris fan and initially disappointed. I hadn't heard the "no room service or calls on the RU tab" story and, if the source were not her brother, would question that. Doesn't sound right.
I think the "sit down demonstration" played a part in the final decision, as did the then RU president, but could be mistaken. Do not know this as fact, just opinion of my "good sources."
It all turned out for the best, IMHO.