It would have to go both ways. If coaches give a scholarship offer it has to be binding. Under the current rules guys like Stills are almost forced into committing. He doesn't have the luxury of having a ton of big offers so when one comes, you jump at it. He knows if he doesn't Rutgers could pull that offer at any time. Even if he committed schools can pull the offer or ask them to grey shirt. Even after they sign they are only guaranteed for school to be paid for and not to join the team.
I don't understand why people get all high and mighty with verbal commitments. You would think all these people never broke a commitment. I am sure every single person on this board has broken a commitment. Weather that was a divorce, job change or broke up with a girlfriend ect. People do it every day but we expect a 17 year old kid not to because we get all butt hurt because our favorite team loses a player. This for them is their first major choice. It a sleazy business because you have coaches who are even less ethical. That offer can be here today and gone tomorrow.
Imagine if college admissions worked the same way. The letter would say congrats you been accepted to Rutgers however if you don't commit now we can pull this at anytime. We we are only taking the first two from your school district so if the other commit you are out. On top of that if you get hurt this offer is no longer valid. Would you tell your kid to wait to see if their dream school accepts them knowing your only back up option was Nassau junior college?