Posting about it here isn't helping anything.Going to be as vague as necessary here. Spoke with a recruits mother through work today. She brought up her son was going to play D1 football next year. I inquired and she told me her sons name and went on to tell me about him not knowing I already knew who he was. Anyway, she told me she would like for him to stay close so she could see him play but thag Michigan was his favorite. I let her know Rutgers is an improving program and beat Michigan last year. She also mentioned her sons current football program preached family and togetherness and I let her know that is the back bone of Rutgers program.
She did not know either of the above tidbits. In addition to thanking me for my service she thanked me for the football information. What's the verdict?
People here are way too uptight. The next school that gets a violation because a fan talks with a recruits mother/brother/uncle/sister will be the first. I don't even care if you bought a ticket to a Rutgers game at some point that technically qualifies you as a booster.
Don't hand out cash, don't give out fake jobs, do talk up Rutgers, do dispel some myths, do present some facts and even some opinions.
Schools are out there hooking family members up with JOBS, and we are worried about a conversation. The Auburn and Tennessee boards would be laughing at us right now.
Going to be as vague as necessary here. Spoke with a recruits mother through work today. She brought up her son was going to play D1 football next year. I inquired and she told me her sons name and went on to tell me about him not knowing I already knew who he was. Anyway, she told me she would like for him to stay close so she could see him play but thag Michigan was his favorite. I let her know Rutgers is an improving program and beat Michigan last year. She also mentioned her sons current football program preached family and togetherness and I let her know that is the back bone of Rutgers program.
She did not know either of the above tidbits. In addition to thanking me for my service she thanked me for the football information. What's the verdict?
Because the Op's story or the mother probably aren't entirely truthful. We have zero recruits(that we are actually recruiting from NJ who don't know we beat Michigan last year). We also have zero recruits who don't know we preach family....it was on our jersey's for christ sake. So, either he is embellishing a bit or maybe having fun with us? Or, we aren't really recruiting him and him liking UM is about as important and me liking USC during my recruitment.So the obvious MAJOR question is how the hell did she not know that Rutgers was all about FAMILY! WTF! Isn't that the first thing we tell our recruits/families?
Second....it was incidental contact and you're fine. I do get the sense that there's some sarcasm in your OP. R U really concerned or just bragging that you had contact with a recruits mother. If so, just buckle it up.
This is what I think happened with Ted Field. I mentioned this in the other thread, but not many agreedWisconsin had to stop recruiting a player last year because a fan/booster had contact at a tailgate and started tweeting them. They turned themselves(UW) about it and that was their punishment was the kid could not sign with them unless sat out a year and paid his own way for the first year of school there.
What the OP did is fine. He did not search out the parent or player and everything was done in a professional setting. As long as he just gave facts and didn't do anything to try and enhance RU's standing with the player or parent then it is fine.
Because saying it over and over doesn't make it less wrong.This is what I think happened with Ted Field. I mentioned this in the other thread, but not many agreed