Derek Jeter, in his single days, after spending the night with a girl would give the girl a "gift bag" including a signed baseball.
My very best friend- moved to Tampa from CT in the late 90's. His daughter- one of the most incredible beauties I have ever known, dated Derek in the early 2000's.
Dad never got a signed baseball but...here is how Derek rolled- and this came from his daughter who I consider a niece.
Derek's trainer is the one who approached her- i forget if at the gym or at a club. At first, she thought he was hitting on her himself. She was friendly and single and he was also friendly and single- so, she was obviously cool with that and even without mentioning DJ, she said that you could tell, he was on the in...
They talk and then when he is comfortable that she is both single, not really looking for attachments, stable and not a "groupie" - The real deal comes out. That Derek was interested in meeting her.
The Dude had this all figured out and it was precision.
She says he was one of the most attentive, classy men she had ever met. When they would go out, he was always on her. Yes, he would still sign autographs and such but as his date, she was his and he was hers all night.
Then she filled in the blanks. Before their first date and over a coffee or drink, he would explain he is not looking for anything perm but he did love respect both ways.
So- if she was on a date with him, it would always be about her. She would never be embarrassed and he would treat her with complete respect.
But...THAT was her time. He did not want stop byes, randoms calls etc. He would be ok if out with the guys if she came by to say hello but if she saw he was waiting for someone or out with another girl, respect her as that girl most likely respected their date as well.
The guy had class but was a well oiled machine.