Love you brother - you have earned her total love and respect from day one.
All true and nothing equates fear more than a first date warning that shall always stick with someone "Let me tell you, I can always stay away longer than you"
Or, as a kid- an 8 y/o girl in Jamaica, her grandmother made her sleep with a bunch of cats and kittens- and she was told that during sleep, they can suck your soul from your breath- so- what does said little girl do- take those cats to the roof of the house and drop each one 8 times. She didn't want to be responsible for their death but her warning to them is that she only left them with 1 life.
That is my wife- and it comes in a package of 5ft9, 125lbs of pure innocent beauty lol