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OT: Who Else Here?

My dad was 6'4" and 320. His hand would eclipse the sun. Never needed a belt. Never got hit anywhere but on the backside with three smacks. But that third one would provide heat for about 5 minutes after.
 
Being Greek we had the threat of the wooden spoon (koutala) from my mother. Dad just gave me that look and I knew he was serious.
Yep, the look but it hurt most when he was disappointed in us boys' idiocy.
 
It was a combination of both.
But, never, ever, would I have thought to question anything. The word, why, was not in my vocabulary.
 
HOLY CRAP I was just about to post this! By high school my mom was literally breaking wooden spoons on our asses (1 brother), and we'd be cracking up, which pissed her off even more so she went to the metallic versions.

We still laughed. :joy:
Boy she got pissed when she broke a spoon and we laughed. The good old days.
 
Fear so much so especially after I smashed his chain saw cutting a tree down that he told me not to touch let alone take.
I joined the Army @ 17 figured it couldn't be worse.
Gonna need the continuation of the story line, up to the present.
 
Jumped up like a jack rabbit when your father told you to do something? Or rectify a wrong, or anything?
And I'm not talking out of fear or punishment, just complete respect.
It might have started with fear, but respect long ago prevailed and carries it on...

And with my Dad at 80 years young, it continues stronger than ever...
 
Based on the stuff i'm reading here and for those that haven't read it, pick up the book "Shit my Dad Says".

Its a great read. I bought this in an airport and laughed the entire plane ride home.
 
I remember what a special treat it was when dad watched TV with us.
Whether it was Mission Impossible, a honeymooners rerun or The Halls of Montezuma on Saturday Night At The Movies.
I can remember his presence and how wonderful it was for me and my two brothers.
My two daughters don't care if they watch with me...lol
 
My Dad was a really strict disciplinarian. Yes Ma'am, no sir, don't speak unless you are spoken to, etc.

I remember he loved to have us do errands. He'd be working on something and whistle for us to come running so that he could have us go fetch something. He'd say, "Go down to the basement and get me the 3/8" wrench with black electrical tape on the handle. It's in the second drawer behind the vice on the workbench next to the sump pump." I would hear, "Go down blah blah blah blah blah blah pump."

By the time I got to the basement, I couldn't remember what I was supposed to get, much less where it was. It just took him forever to explain anything. I'd come back upstairs without it, and he would go through the same litany, only with disdain. And I would zone on about the fourth word. I'd be looking right at him and nodding, but thinking about anything else in the world. Third time he'd walk me down, repeat his instructions all the way, show me the wrench and unfailingly say, "If it were a snake, you'd be dead."

But, he never missed a game I played in and took immense pride in anything I, or my three brothers ever accomplished. He was the best person in the world to tell good news to.

Drove me nuts, but I miss him.
 
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