The whole content from the Stringer quote you posted:
“Coaching basketball is far more than wins and losses. It's a source of pride in who they are, and we want to play the best of the competition,” Stringer said. “It’s more important to me that I demonstrate what it means to be a strong woman that they know who they are, and they get far more from basketball than just playing basketball."
Since returning to the sidelines, the Hall of Famer has had some tough hurdles to clear — a new system, lack of depth, and the addition of five faces to the rotation.
Stringer’s emphasis right now is making sure her players are paying attention to the details and technicalities of the game.
“I'm like this; if I don't like the way we're playing, then I'll just take the whole team out and just lose, because I'd rather lose than play the game ugly,” Stringer said.
Sounds more like a teaching lesson to motivate better play, then just giving up and keeping a player from getting in the game.
More like making sure that player knows she has to do what she's supposed to do , or not get the minutes.
I'm not to keen on that type of approach, but most coaches will keep players out of games if that player isn't playing the way the coach wants.