A lot of Scarletnation posters, including myself, have grown up in the NY metropolitan area, and are fine with the fast-paced and demanding life (or bitch endlessly about it). It's obviously not for everyone, across the spectrum from construction to sales to medicine to college football coaches. But if one perseveres and succeeds here at their chosen task, the acclaim and rewards will be greater than most other places in the world, let alone this country. The college football world received a small taste of this with Rutgers' success in 2006.
And if this area was too stressful and undesirable, then tens of millions of people wouldn't live here, not to mention the many millions who travel here for business, pleasure, opportunity, and the like. I'm actually glad that the demands of living here limit the population to the very large number that it already is; traffic is already bad enough. Call it Jersey Strong, being a New Yorker, etc..