And I am not trying to get bashed here. And I consider all the board an extended family. And I AM NOT here to bash HCKF. I never have in any of my posts. I genuinely like the man. But something has to give. Do all these young men need to be responsible for their own actions?? Absolutely. But at the end of the day someone has to answer for it no?? I love Rutgers deeply. My daughters want to go to Rutgers. One is of age where she will start sending out applications next year. My kids could struggle getting into RU. They will face different and tougher standards then a stud football player would. And I get that and its understood. But when the stud football player is "getting in" and wanted or needed by our football staff, isn't it assumed (or stressed) that they will not or better not cause a black-eye for the university??? And if or when they do who pays?? Is it not the CEO of the team? I hope I was able to get my pt. across in words....not looking to bash at all but really just looking for answers... what do we do?