Touchy feely? We're in a baby culture in which truth, or elements of it, are subordinated to appease our feelings. Sometimes the truth hurts--it'll set you free, but it can make you miserable at first. CC needs to lose weight, no doubt about it, and CC fvcked up by drinking too much. If we'd stop trying to protect everyone feelings, including our own, we'd have a shot at 1) Staying healthier knowing that we'll be called out on our shit, and 2) Not be such babies.
Also, why would a Mod be mature? The nature of anybody wanting that job is a general lack of maturity. I say that as a compliment.
But, I digress.