Thanks. Just one and he's done with college and making decent money. Saved well, never carried any debt other than a mortgage (paid off a few years ago), and was fortunate to work at one of the last companies (Merck) with a defined benefit pension plan. Was going to take the lifetime payments back in spring 2022, when inflation started rearing its ugly head, so I decided to take the lump sum instead, so I could invest it and make some $$, instead of having a fixed income from the pension with no cost of living adjustments. Cashed out near the max amount before it would have dropped significantly (those lump sums go down a fair amount when interest rates rise and vice versa) and have done ok with the investments.
As an interesting aside, I have a few friends whose aim is to "have the check for the funeral bounce," i.e., spend everything they have while they're still alive, leaving nothing to their heirs. I get it, but that's not what we're doing. Will hopefully be leaving a nice big chunk for our son and smaller chunks for a few charities (and Rutgers).