Doug, thank you for your insight. Even in 2004/2005 it was so different then it is now. As Kevin went through it, we really didn't care about anything but what was right for him. I don't think he ever felt like he 'had' to play for his home school. Most of the coaches except for a few were about the same, I never saw a 'super recruiter' whatever the hell that is. He eventually chose Rutgers because on his visits elsewhere, he felt the same as you, an outsider.
Great choice because he is still friends with most if his teammates. They still hang out and he always knew we were close by and also always looked into the stands before each game to see us. He said it was so strange in a couple if away games we didn't make to know we weren't there.
The worse moment was 2007 against Ville away. He got hurt pretty bad right before half. They had considered bringing him to an emergency room down there and it scared shit out of him not to have family there.
Spoke to a buddy of mine who I believe played at the same time as you. His son went to Stanford. Don't get me wrong, you never turn them down but he told me the first thing he had to do was find a family that would go to the hospital with his son if he ever got seriously injured while he would have to scramble to get a flight out there.
There are so many reasons to stay home
Great choice because he is still friends with most if his teammates. They still hang out and he always knew we were close by and also always looked into the stands before each game to see us. He said it was so strange in a couple if away games we didn't make to know we weren't there.
The worse moment was 2007 against Ville away. He got hurt pretty bad right before half. They had considered bringing him to an emergency room down there and it scared shit out of him not to have family there.
Spoke to a buddy of mine who I believe played at the same time as you. His son went to Stanford. Don't get me wrong, you never turn them down but he told me the first thing he had to do was find a family that would go to the hospital with his son if he ever got seriously injured while he would have to scramble to get a flight out there.
There are so many reasons to stay home
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