Add in the fact that you guys went a combined 2-24 in conference games this year in the two money sports (Football, MBB) I'd say Rutgers has absolutely zero room to talk.
You're absolutely right. Some posters drown their sorrows in a 20 yr Scotch, others take solace in firing shots at Happy Valley. That's what you should mainly expect here, unfortunately.
What kind of team will we have this season? Reality won't live up to expectations, IMO, mainly b/c those expectations are running high with an amped up fan base right now. However, we will be better coached, more exciting to watch, and hopefully will be more competitive in conference.