I'm not 35 but thanks for guessing. Let me get you a violin to play . Who gives a crap what they have gone through? It's called life and what the hell does that have to do with going to class and not being put on academic probation your first semester of college? Oh it doesn't. He earned his way into Michigan for one reason only... because he can play football and he's blowing his chance already. Take your sympathy and walk in someone else's shoes story else where.
Very unimpressive post.