Seems like, for a lot of folks, their Tesla represents the pinnacle of their automotive experience. That is, it's the most expensive and fastest car they've owned. And often the commentary reflects that.
Hang out in luxury automotive forums, particularly in the up-market models sections, and you seem to get an entirely different set of comments about Teslas than you hear elsewhere. Not all negative, but far more balanced. And it's in those forums, among folks who value and expect true luxury, that the most fit and finish criticism can be found.
Pure ICE engines cannot match the acceleration dynamics of a pure EV. Even if they can match the 0-60 or 1/4 mile performance, the linearity won't be there. And I suspect what a lot of people identify as so thrilling, after the initial kick, is that steady linear build up in speed because, with most ICE cars, the torque either comes on late and fades, or it comes on quicker, but still fades.
OTOH, EVs cannot match the dynamics and experience of a high-revving, dual-clutch high performance sports car as it loudly slams up through the gears. And within ICE cars, some folks will prefer how an NA V8 or V10 sounds and feels while others will prefer how an NA or blown V6 sounds and feels.
There's just no "better choice", when it comes to cars, except the one a particular individual enjoys the most. Get what you like and can afford.