I covered golf for the Associate Press between 1995 and 2000 and interacted with both of these guys dozens and dozens of times. The urge to put a black hat on one and a white hat on the other is a bit too cut and dry, imo. Truth is, both, in different ways, are extremely eccentric characters who today, are genuinely good people at heart.
In the 1990's, before the major championships, a family, his wife having breast cancer and figuring out that the more he smiled and waved, the more money sponsors would pay him, Mickelson was not well liked on tour. He had no friends, keeping to Bones and his wife, his agent and that was it. He's a guy who would pontificate on topics like politics and the environment and when you listen to him, you realize what a complete whack job of a brain he has working for him. He always had a ton of talent, won a Tour event as an amateur and carried himself like a major champion from the get go and it rubbed people the wrong way. There wasn't a lot to like and he didn't really try, either.
But he's grown as a person since then and now the young guys love him. He's an eccentric old veteran who plays for $50g's, puts $200g's down on football games and hands out $100's money to anyone who does anything for him. He's been a great family man and has really nailed the superstar to fan interaction. His popularity has soared and so has his bank account. But I think he genuinely loves the roe of politician/back slapper. It comes easy to him. This was not something he was doing a lot of in the 90's. Good for him, he grew, learned and became a better person.
I talked at length with Earl Woods on a number of occasions. Deeply suspicious, enemies around every corner, unnecessarily paranoid, etc. But the guy was a special forces op in the jungles of Vietnam. That does something to you. He was also a black man coming of age in a time when racism was a lot more prevalent and out in the open. That was who he was and that influenced his sons views on the world more than anything else.
As good of a job as Earl Woods did honing his sons talent to dominate the sport of golf, he didn't prepare him at all on how to handle what came with it and I don't know if anyone could have. The level of fame that kid reached after winning the Masters in 1997 was of Elvis proportions. I saw on numerous occasions, him and his agent literally having to fight there way out of press rooms as the crush of local and national TV cameras, reporters and producers would jam the aisle he was meant to walk out of. The galleries were incredible, stampeding from hole to hole, he was like a rock star on a golf course and he hated every minute of it. The first time I interviewed him in Las Vegas before the 1996 tournament, he told me he wished he could just play golf and be left alone. He hated all the interactions that came with getting from his car to the tee and consequently, put up an armor that walled everyone out. It comes across as rude and on many levels, it is. But to deal with what he was dealing with and do it like Phil does it, it would take a Bill Clinton, a guy who just gets off on being with crowds of people, shaking hands, holding baby's up for pictures. Tiger Woods couldn't be further from that guy.
But one on one, he was funny as hell, extremely quick witted, if you left yourself open, he'd launch the zinger quicker than you realized you had set yourself up for it. He made friends on Tour in the way that he'd bust balls on the tee or putting green. He earned a lot of points by managing his game to try an alleviate the stampede as much as possible by marking his ball before putting out so his playing partner could putt without the commotion. So, there wast a lot to not like about him.
Everyone knew what he was dealing with and empathized with how difficult it must be. Understood he had enough on his plate just dealing with it and they respected the hell out of him as a golfer, obviously. He had no enemies and wasn't looking for any. It's just a shame he wasn't able to enjoy it a bit, like Phil or Arnold but he is much more like Hogan, only funnier and more irreverent.
He seems to stay close with people he met before the fame. The Stanford guys, childhood buddies...everyone that came after seems to be expendable to him. But as a natural loner, with two kids and a handful of friends, I think that's all he really wants in his life.
So, root for both of them, I do.