Well thank you for the lecture, professor. It seems you were a bit triggered by my post, and that was not my intent. Frankly, while it was likely not your intent, your post came off a tad bombastic, considering the context of the discussion of Rutgers vs Rowan or TCNJ. I'm well aware of your background,.and I think we have messaged off board before. Let's try to dial down our responses, shall we?
I'm glad your kids had wonderful undergraduate experiences. As you are well aware, the same is possible for the poor slobs who must choose a State U such as Rutgers or Rowan as the lowest cost option. I did not read Rutgers Dave's post in context to your response, so perhaps I missed your point.
As for the couple I knew from Vassar, maybe my memory is foggy and one of them went to a different school. But the time frame would have been 1988-92. For the sake of the debt exercise, they could have easily had about $100K in undergrad debt each, and law school ran about $20K per year for all expenses, not including housing and meals, which would have added another $20K per year with no on campus housing. So, my figure of about $400K is not far off. My point stands about that being an insane amount of debt to incur early in life, which was part of the context of the discussion.
Now, I did not know this couple well and why they were paying their own way with only loan burden. But I do remember their remark about debt as part of a casual group discussion. We did not stay in touch, and I have no idea how it worked out.
But back to the topic at hand, I think we will agree that the cost of a Rutgers education is an absolute bargain for an outstanding University with a stellar reputation and stellar professors such as yourself. Like any large institution, it has its warts and weak spots, but the experience my wife and I had was first rate, and 30 years later out oldest child has an even better experience in the Honors College. Go RU!