I'm more with
@jtung230 on this.
But I'm not 17 either.
The Honors College dorms are superb. Have not seen other dorms at Rutgers.
My youngest kid lived in one of the nicest dorms at a small private college in Connecticut. We saw the dorm this week--it was pretty nice, but not over the top to the point that it would have made a difference. That same kid spent the week before hanging out in Silvers apartments with some Rutgers friends. We asked how the apartments were, and he said they were "pretty good."
Was talking with two colleagues who have kids in college. One is at RPI in Troy. Seems the standard dorm is painted concrete block outer walls and drywall walls separating the bedrooms and living room. Carpeting and furnishings seems to be standard fare most everywhere.
Not sure what the guy's beef is with the RU dorms. I was in Davidson dorms freshman year. Think they were converted army barracks? They were fine, and I had no complaints.
My kids were more career and program focused. Both were focused on the academic labs and facilities at their respective schools. For the oldest, Rutgers got high marks. For the youngest, same at the small private college in Connecticut. Youngest did not want to go to Rutgers or a big state school. But he thought it was a fun place to hang out with friends.
That's a long way of saying that housing was not high on our list in our house,
but each kid/family is different.