Journalists? What's a journalist in today's world?This is true. A Mercedes GL450 is a good example of a "standard" luxury SUV (i.e. very luxurious but not a Rolls Royce or whatever). A Tesla Model Y is a perfectly fine car that, according to all objective reports, is not as luxurious feeling as a Kia Telluride's top trim (which is often compared to the Merc).
Read through the ownership experiences by folks in luxury automotive forums who own both high end luxury cars and Teslas and they'll quickly point out that their Teslas are not "luxury" cars.
That's not really a knock on Tesla so much as on automotive journalist's odd and misleading adoption of marketing hyperbole at times (they do it a lot with other manufacturers too, e.g. giving rave reviews of 991.2 Carrera manual shifters when in reality that particular shifter/cable design kind of sucks and tons of 911 owners wind up replacing them with aftermarket shifters and cables to get that "Porsche feel" back).
Wish the journalists would do less cheerleading and more factual reporting. It's a first world problem, though, so as complaints go, it's a minor one.
That aside, consistent with your reading of ownership experiences, a friend has a Porsche, a BMW and a Tesla Y (I think). He said that the build quality of the Tesla (alignment of panels-e.g., hood, fenders, etc) is really poor and he has had several quality issues with his Tesla. He is not sour on the brand, and he is still fairly happy with the Tesla, but his comments and experience surprised me.
Tesla is ranked very poorly for reliability. 27 out of 28.

Consumer Reports Still Ranks Tesla Reliability 27th Out Of 28
Even though Tesla dominates CR's owner satisfaction surveys, it fares very poorly when it comes to reliability and dependability.
