Never experienced rudeness in Spain... Spain and Portugal are two countries that I'm always wanting to return to, not only super affordable but the people are generally happy and welcoming. Just watch out in Barcelona, lots of pickpockets and scammer types. Almost everyone I know that has visited has had some incident there. Wonderful place though.I was always told Spaniards are rude and arrogant (by Hispanic people). I assume there was some exaggeration but it’s one of the few places in Europe I’ve never been to. How did you find them to be during your travels.
The French on the other hand... Hohoho impolie comme une mère... lol. I have a cousin there, they are great but people there really have a stick up their ass worse than anyone in the tristate, and are more aggressive drivers than we have in NJ too, tailgate the shit out of people and zigzag. I was going 120 km/hr which was faster than the speed limit and still getting tailgated like crazy. I generally dont like driving in Europe, the cities are really old, so they aren't really built for driving in, hence why people there all drive compact cars and often streets have really sharp turns, so it's sucks ass as a tourist with a family renting a SUV to fit the family luggage).
In Europe I've been to Spain twice (Andalusia -Sevilla and all over the South after visiting Morocco; Barcelona and then Basque region San Sebastian to Bilbao), Italy three times (Rome, Almafi, Cinque Terre, Florence/Tuscany, San Marino, Emilia-Romania/Bologna-Modena-Parma, Venice), Portugal once (Lisbon and Algarve coast), Greece (Athens, all over Peloponnese, Santorini, Crete), France twice (Paris, Lyon, Strasbourg region, Loire valley, Burgundy, Rhone valley, Riviera), Slovenia, Croatia, Montenegro, Bosnia-Herzogovina.