OK, makes sense. Your issues sound more specific to your situation and location. I wouldn't expect it would be easy to get family from Boston area to Piscataway and on top of that they don't seem as interested in Rutgers (theme).
Not sure where you specifically live but for those in NJ - I can't imagine how it would be quicker to get to an event in NYC (Yankee Stadium, MSG).
You mentioned Metlife.....here's a comparison for me in Football in the area.....I had Giants season Tix for over 25 years. Tailgates with over 40 people....but gave them up after my friend who had seats with mine passed. Lots of traffic/congested area, expensive season tix >$200 per game, seat license for thousands each, $40 per game parking pass, 30 minute lines to get thru security and pretty lousy play on the field for the past 15 years, 60 minutes + to get out of lots after games, 60 minute
+ drive to get to Stadium (without traffic), constant road construction on Rt 46 and Rt 3, drunk fans from opposing teams starting fights, ugly stadium design, expensive concessions.........the grass is not always greener.