You can always tell the people that don’t have kids, put their kids thru college 30 years ago or haven’t been through the process yet. My kids are junior and seniors in college. The college application process is no longer fun. Rutgers is not easy to get into and there are not a lot of great realistic options in NJ. For most kids, Rutgers is too urban or too close. The other state schools fall into that same category or are a notch below. The competition is tough since my kids went to private school. Private colleges can cost similar to Rutgers. It was in my case. Don’t rule out other options.
My advice to the OP is to go to VT if your son wants to go out of state. It’s only 6 hours away. It was the back up for my son. Colorado sounds great until he has to take all those flights ( and expense). If he wants to stay in state, go for you and you can save some $.
My advice to the OP is to go to VT if your son wants to go out of state. It’s only 6 hours away. It was the back up for my son. Colorado sounds great until he has to take all those flights ( and expense). If he wants to stay in state, go for you and you can save some $.