I was in Hawaii twice, but only as a young child. Don't remember much! Been wanting to get there for a bunch of years, but COVID delayed this trip and a few others. So, it will be a new experience for the family.
This will be totally a splurge trip. We are doing 8 nights/9 days on Oahu. We thought about a second island, but there is so much to do on Oahu for first-timers and we don't want to run around like crazy. We need time to chill, relax, and just be there. We will be at the Four Seasons Ko Olina next to Disney's Aulani Resort. Likely 2 private charters for the leeward and windward sides of the island. Definitely a luau and skygazing. Plenty of hikes, beaches, Pearl Harbor, and the north short (gotta see the pipeline)! Few other things on our list, but always open to suggestions.