For retirement, 2.5 (mil) at 55 has been my golden rule, but that’s subjective at best
Lot of variables - health, economy, location, taxes, kids, investments, insurance, inheritances, plans while retiring, hobbies, etc
Assume minimal mortgage and less bills bc kids are older. Also assume you’re not going on 5 trips / year to Tahiti and buying 3 Ferraris
At 55, id ~ 10k / month net coming in. Wouldn’t mind working if relatively stress free and pay was good
With inflatation, bills, taxes etc assume ~5k - so that leaves another 5k discreanary income
Hobbies depend on a lot - do you enjoy traveling, boating, eating out etc or ate you more of a homebody?
Do you want 2 places? One up north one in south? If so, will one be rented out part of the year?
So many variables, but it’s always better to have more than be scrambling around later in life