This is what Title IV will get you. Girls competing and being recruited who years ago would have stopped sports after HS. Parents push them when they dont really want to compete any more or don't have the desire so they do it begrudgingly and then when the coach demands excellence they can't take it and meltdown.
Most guys will tell you the best coaches they had were the ones who pushed them to their limits and beyond. At the time you curse them but in the end you love them.
This. Look at women's basketball. There's simply not enough good players to fill 50 rosters let alone 300 or whatever it is. That's why teams like UConn can win a million games in a row many by 50 points or more.