ND is going to either join or not…they could give two craps about Stanford..except the fact that Stanford is superior to them academically and makes ND look even better by affiliation. ND is about two things…1. Themselves…2.Money…Your last sentence is why Stanford is a target. B1G gets Stanford to get to ND. B1G wants to checkmate ND into joining by taking away all of their historic rivals. If ND still declines after all that, then just go ahead and grab Cal to lock up the Bay Area along with Stanford.