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OT: Any NJ Town (w/ NYC commute) Recommendations

If you're waking distance it's a huge quality of life benefit, imho.

We don't live in one of those trendy towna but we are walking distance to all schools, downtown (restos, library, bars, ice cream, shops, etc.) And the park. It might not seem like too big of a deal to an adult, but to a kid being liberated from the need to a car is the best.
This! I grew up in North Brunswick, the town was basically separated by two intersecting highways in Rt 1 and Rt 130. You really couldn't go anywhere except your immediate neighborhood without a car or a ride. I'm in Cranford now, you can get anywhere walking or by bike. Huge difference, especially being able to go downtown and catch a movie, pizza, ice cream/starbucks all within a 5 minute walk of one another.
 
Which towns are you questioning? There are plenty of schools that give you a great education that aren't the expensive towns mentioned. It's the parents that need to provide the right guidance. If your kid is in the top 10 in his high school, they probably get into a Ivy League school. Everyone thinks you need to go to private school or only the best HS in NJ.

This isn't even remotely true. You haven't spent a single moment with the high school placement scattergrams.
 
The Cornelia Bradford elementary school in Exchange Place in Jersey City is well regarded. If you would stick around for the 10 years and can afford Exchange Place (2 bedrooms likely at least 600k) it would be worth it.
 
Thought the same, access into Grand Central instead of Penn/Port Authority makes a huge difference for a lot of people. Problem is the $$$$ of course.

Yes, Westchester is not much of a better commute. Great Neck on LI I believe a 35 minute ride into Penn on the LIRR, that may be worth a look by OP
 
Edgewater may also be worth a look. Leonia HS is pretty well ranked, would be condo vs a house but would be one of the better commutes outside of Hudson County.
 
I had a friend who lived in Riverdale in the Bronx. It was really really nice. 20 minute metro north ride to midtown. I have no idea about the schools though.
 
No downside to that bro. Philly has come a long way and is a great city to live and work in.

To each his own though!
Haha glad you're able to take a joke. I have a buddy who's live everywhere in NJ, from central to north to the shore, and even spent some time in Oregon, and came back to settle in... Philly. I always get him with the worst part of living in Philly is having to live in Philly. But like you say, to each his own.
 
Glen Ridge has beautiful housing and a very good midtown direct train commute into NYC, and good schools too.

But I dare you to take a look at the property taxes in that town. Seriously, take a gander on zillow or elsewhere.. you'll $hit your pants.
 
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Unless you have tons of money, you are looking for something that doesnt exist. 45 mins is not realistic. Also, the school thing is overrated. As long as you're not in a Paterson or a Newark etc your kids will be fine.
 
Yeah, but the downside is that you have to live and work in Philly.

I prefer NYC to Philly, but I look at this thread and I realize how hard it would be to actually commute to NYC while raising a family (or even without raising a family!) . Philly and South Jersey are good places, but they certainly are not as dynamic as NYC and the nearby suburbs.
 
Montville (not Montvale) is a great town. Frequently ranked a top 50 town by Money Mag. We moved here because wife worked in Sparta and I on Park Ave. However commute was 45 minutes door to door in the morning but 90+ minutes coming home.
 
There is no Amtrak service to Camden. To get to NYC from Camden by rapid transit, you'd have to take the River Line to Trenton and then switch to NJ Transit going to Penn Station. The River Line, I think, takes a half hour alone. And there is simply no way anyone should live in Camden. What you could do is to live in some place like Cherry Hill and then drive up I-295 to Hamilton (about thirty miles away from Cherry Hill), then take the NJ transit train. But that takes two hours at least; I know: I've done it. You could also take the Greyhound bus from Mount Laurel, and sit in traffic for a long time.

Another option from Cherry Hill would be to go to 30th Street station in Philly, and take Amtrak to Penn Station. That is costly. You could do it by mass transit by living near a PATCO station, taking PATCO to 8th and Market, and then switching to the Market-Frankford Septa line and go to 30th street station. We're talking a lot of time by that route, too.

Let's just say any one of these options is a disaster. I've done something like them all and continue to do it and I would absolutely not go near any of these commutes. Cherry Hill to 30th St to Penn Station, surely you mean for a weekend visit and not for a daily back and forth commute. And Hamilton NJ ? The train ride itself is 60 minutes I believe let alone parking, driving there, and connections.
 
Let's just say any one of these options is a disaster. I've done something like them all and continue to do it and I would absolutely not go near any of these commutes. Cherry Hill to 30th St to Penn Station, surely you mean for a weekend visit and not for a daily back and forth commute. And Hamilton NJ ? The train ride itself is 60 minutes I believe let alone parking, driving there, and connections.

In fact, it's generally about 70 minutes from Hamilton to Penn Station. FWIW, the parking situation has improved with the construction of a multilevel garage. I have heard of people doing this, but I agree that it and the alternatives are impossible. I just thought that, along with dismissing the nonexistent Camden Amtrak service, I should describe what the situation really is in South Jersey, especially since the OP said he was from South Jersey.

A former vice dean of the Camden law school -- I'm not sure what vice he specialized in -- once told me that I should be willing to commute twice a week from Cherry Hill to Rutgers' Newark campus because "the train trip is only 55 minutes." I pointed out that getting to the train takes 40 minutes -- and of course one has to take the subway in Newark. And of course, getting to NYC is even harder, whether by PATH or NJ Transit.
 
Rutherford is a up and coming hidden gem most people don't talk about.
Rutherford is good. Most towns on the Bergen line. Although I like Ridgewood and Glen Rock, Fairlawn checks the boxes for a young family. Good schools, decent downtown and affordable. 2 train stations like Glen Rock.
 
Paramus/Wyckoff have low taxes so you can afford more house and the drive to the downtown in Ridgewood or Glen Rock is a few minutes.
 
One thing to consider though: in Essex County you can shop on Sunday.
Why do people always point this out as a negative? This is a huge positive. I grew up in Union County and moved to Bergen 25 years ago. Best decision I made. I love it up here and no traffic on Sunday's. All the supermarkets are open and some towns have stores open. No matter where you live in Bergen county you can get to a mall in less than 20 minutes if you really need to shop on a Sunday.
 
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I was hoping that I could canvass everyone here to get your thoughts on what towns are great places to live these days for a young family looking to move out of the city to NJ for some more space. I've checked out NJ Monthly's lists and all the others I could find online but I want to know what are NJ's Best Places to Live according to Rutgers fans?

Some background:
My wife and I are in our early 30's, have been married for 2 years, have a 1 year old, and have lived in NYC for the past 11 years. I grew up in South Jersey, which as most of you know makes North Jersey largely unfamiliar territory to me.

What's important for us:
  • Great public schools
  • Short commute - we will both continue to work in midtown NYC and want to keep daily travel time down as much as possible. Shooting for under 45 minutes each way.
  • Vibrant downtown and community
Any thoughts on where we should be looking would be greatly appreciated!!

Here you go

http://www.njfamily.com/Top-NJ-Transit-Commuter-Towns/
 
The issue I think is the down payment. I know many of my fellow millenials have not socked away the 200k down payment for that 1M house in Millburn, even when making good dough.
What do you mean? Millennials do not want to work at all and they mooch off their parents and people that work hard . Those that may want to work can't find any jobs because the Dems and libs want it that way and keep doing the same thing ( voting for idiots like Obama and Hillary) and expecting things to get better. Isn't that called insanity?
 
From MetroPark you can get the express train. It's less than 40 minutes. Train is packed and MetroPark is a zoo, but it's a direct line.
 
Montville Township
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Source: NorthJersey.com
Population: 21,580
Unemployment Rate: 4.7%
Median Income: $116,250

And rounding out the top 10 best places to live in New Jersey is Montville Township.

Montville followed a similar path to the top 10 with its low unemployment, however it also stood out for its crime rates, which place in the top 10% of the state.

Another universally recognized great place to live, Montville has consistently appeared as one of Money Magazine’s best places to live in the country.
 
Ridgewood...best town in NNJ...
Dido. Rail commute and a very nice downtown district which isn't available everywhere. Don't know if the DMV Inspection Station is still operational. Also, close to highways and shopping centers and a town pool for the family. Valley Hospital if that is important to you
 
Don't you dare hijack this thread! OP sounds like a good dude.


Philly is great. Burbs are affordable, solid job market, schools are good if you do the research , I can get to RU football in 90 minutres, I got a lot of house for the money ( 8 year old house 3600 sq foot for 405k on a 1/2 acre lot)one major downfall- the PSU clowns that I'm surrounded by, totally sucks. At least there not all as bad as Reppin jerk and DNA
 
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If you are making money hand over fist......some of these options are good. Some of these towns have property taxes of like 15k+ per year and it will be almost impossible to find a house for less than 500k.
 
Woodbridge is fine. I don't think the school are as good as the other places but from a cost standpoint Woodbridge is much more affordable.

Not singling you out but sometimes I wonder if "great schools" is code language for little or no blacks and Hispanics. Most of the towns mentioned as having "great schools" also happen to be Lily white. Woodbridge has a decent amount of minorities so I suspect the schools can only be "fine" as opposed to "great"
 
Dido. Rail commute and a very nice downtown district which isn't available everywhere. Don't know if the DMV Inspection Station is still operational. Also, close to highways and shopping centers and a town pool for the family. Valley Hospital if that is important to you
Does the train stop in Secaucus and continue on to grand central? an advantage is that you don't need to change trains?
 
Not singling you out but sometimes I wonder if "great schools" is code language for little or no blacks and Hispanics. Most of the towns mentioned as having "great schools" also happen to be Lily white. Woodbridge has a decent amount of minorities so I suspect the schools can only be "fine" as opposed to "great"
No, it has nothing to do with race. I am familiar with Woodbridge and have known the mayor for 20+ years. In general JFK is a decent school. Colonia is ok. Woodbridge HS is ok. If you go by test scores, school rankings, kids going to college after school those 3 aren't as good as the others mentioned. Most schools mentioned in this thread are in very expensive areas, and the schools are very good or great. That was the OP request, train line, good schools, good down town. Now, if the OP can't afford Summit, Westfield, etc, he could move to Woodbridge, Or south Edison which are more affordable.
 
First off there is some great advice on here, and here is my 2 cents. First off try to get a job/location where you can spend as much time as possible with your kid - I know we all have to be caught up in the $ game to a certain extent, but that time you spend with your little one(s) is invaluable to both of you. I get you wanting to get in the best school district possible (I'm caught up with it too now), but I would say be careful what you wish for.

From what I've seen a lot of the Asian population send their kids to Kumon and other after school education programs from a very young age - it seems crazy to me to start sending a 4 year old to these programs but it just seems like part of their culture. The point being you will be sending your kid into an ultra-competitive landscape, and you need to prepared for that.

Finally I would say a good enough school district vs top of the line district may be ok - maybe a Woodbridge fits into that category, and actually Woodbridge is a perfect example for one of my points. We actually live in a town now where there is great disparity between elementary schools (we happen to be in a really good one), but as you start to filter into middle school and high school things start to get worse so that's why we are moving. I know Woodbridge has 3 schools in their district and I'm guessing that their is disparity between the 3 HS. Same in Edison - I know that JP Stevens is much more preferred HS vs Edison HS. So my point is maybe living in a town like Woodbridge or Edison (which is probably a notch or two below what has been mentioned here), but living in the right area so your kid could filter into the right school would be something to consider. This would free up some $ and maybe allow you to get to spend more time with your kid which is the real gold! Btw my whole theory may be shot to hell with the Edison example as there is a HUGE Asian population there. Anyway good luck!
 
First off there is some great advice on here, and here is my 2 cents. First off try to get a job/location where you can spend as much time as possible with your kid - I know we all have to be caught up in the $ game to a certain extent, but that time you spend with your little one(s) is invaluable to both of you. I get you wanting to get in the best school district possible (I'm caught up with it too now), but I would say be careful what you wish for.

From what I've seen a lot of the Asian population send their kids to Kumon and other after school education programs from a very young age - it seems crazy to me to start sending a 4 year old to these programs but it just seems like part of their culture. The point being you will be sending your kid into an ultra-competitive landscape, and you need to prepared for that.

Finally I would say a good enough school district vs top of the line district may be ok - maybe a Woodbridge fits into that category, and actually Woodbridge is a perfect example for one of my points. We actually live in a town now where there is great disparity between elementary schools (we happen to be in a really good one), but as you start to filter into middle school and high school things start to get worse so that's why we are moving. I know Woodbridge has 3 schools in their district and I'm guessing that their is disparity between the 3 HS. Same in Edison - I know that JP Stevens is much more preferred HS vs Edison HS. So my point is maybe living in a town like Woodbridge or Edison (which is probably a notch or two below what has been mentioned here), but living in the right area so your kid could filter into the right school would be something to consider. This would free up some $ and maybe allow you to get to spend more time with your kid which is the real gold! Btw my whole theory may be shot to hell with the Edison example as there is a HUGE Asian population there. Anyway good luck!
JP Stevens is ultra competitive. Edison HS is not.
 
The outcome for any individual child has much more to do with family and socioeconomic background than school. As long as the school is safe and decent I don't think it's worth getting too worked up over. The idea that anyone would be concerned about sending their child to a wonderful historic high school like Columbia is silly. You couldnt pay me to pick a horrible boring town like Franklin Lakes over Maplewood or Montclair just becauer of some school ranking. Your kid will be grateful too every time he bikes or walks to town to meet his friends for basketball, pizza, or a movie.
 
Glen Ridge has beautiful housing and a very good midtown direct train commute into NYC, and good schools too.

But I dare you to take a look at the property taxes in that town. Seriously, take a gander on zillow or elsewhere.. you'll $hit your pants.

People who live in Glenn Ridge put up 2 signs when their youngest kid graduates high school: "Congratulations Graduate " and "For Sale"
 
OP sounds similar to me. I lived in Hoboken for 11 years, early 30's with a 1 year old. The only difference is I work downtown NYC not midtown and my wife is an elementary school teacher, although not going back to work since we had our daughter.

We narrowed down our search to Monmouth County and New Providence. I really liked New Providence, knew the area well as both my wife and I grew up right around there, and my wife taught there (before retiring). Because I worked downtown, the train to Hoboken, and switch to the path/ferry was just too much of a pain to deal with and the commute would have been about 90 mins each way. We settled on Fair Haven in Monmouth County and just moved in two weeks ago (after a month stay at my inlaws in Union County cementing my idea to not live there because the commute stunk).

The ferry for me is a great option, I drive 10 mins to the Atlantic Highlands ferry and I'm in my office with coffee in hand an hour and five mins after I leave my house.

I don't know where your office is in midtown, but unless it's on top of penn station I don't see any commutes being 45 mins door to door. When I lived in Hoboken my commute was 40 mins.

Good luck and feel free to ask any questions since it sounds like we're in similar spots. I just researched a ton of towns, schools, etc and I'm happy to help.

Fair Haven is a great area so congrats to you - but no way you can say the commute from New Providence stinks. My wife commutes via train to Hoboken and Ferry to her office at the World Financial Center. Very easy - no more tha a 5 minute ride to the train from anywhere in town and plenty of train options in the morning.
 
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