I think Dpgru has a point. Was playing in a semi pro league in New York's southern tier in the late 60's. My first year in the league. We were playing St Stans, a Polish club, & the best team in the league. Bobby Klausner, a former scholarship pitcher was chucking--a big guy who could throw. I came up for a third time & we were leading 2-0. I had run both runs across & was driving him crazy on the bases. First pitch, he drilled me, broadsided me. People said you could hear the crack all over the stadium. Knew he threw at me. Could see him zero in on me. Took a couple of steps toward first, then turned & fogged my Jackie Robinson at him & went right after it & him. Big brawl. After the dust settled they threw me out of the game. I'm screaming " what about him", he threw at me. Next week at practice my manager, a real good guy & a great baseball guy, tells me he had a hell of a time over me. They were going to throw me out of the league. I said what about Klausner, he threw at me. He said I knew he was going to.[my guy was in the 3rd base box when the festivities began]. He says their manager [who was playing 3rd] went over to the mound & told him to. I said, why didn't you tell me? He said I figured you could handle yourself. I said well I did.
Sorry for the personal story, but thought it was relevant to the post & discussion.