It isn't just locals vs visitors.
My grandfather and his 2nd wife who grew up in Manasquan bought a home up by the HS in the 50's. Once he retired they moved down here permantly till he passed almost 25 years later. He used to say to the locals he would always be the "Guy who bought so and so's house". Heck when I moved here FT there was an unspoken divide between people depending on whether you lived on the beach or town side of the bridges.
My grandfather and his 2nd wife who grew up in Manasquan bought a home up by the HS in the 50's. Once he retired they moved down here permantly till he passed almost 25 years later. He used to say to the locals he would always be the "Guy who bought so and so's house". Heck when I moved here FT there was an unspoken divide between people depending on whether you lived on the beach or town side of the bridges.