I've been covering these needs for the past dozen years with two vehicles:
Like Mildone lamented - there really isn't a new SUV that piques my interest - at least not one worth spending in excess of $50k.
- 1999 BMW Z-3 coupe (not an M, but a rock-solid performer). I'm finally getting to really break it in around the canyon roads in CA. It's my daily driver.
- 1996 Ford Bronco - for hauling, beach use and tailgating. I'll buy another big Bronco in a heart beat, especially if a CA vehicle that wasn't tainted by road salt. Current one has the 5L engine. Had another 1996 with the 5.8L engine. Driving range was nearly 400 miles.
I have a funny Z-3 story.
In the spring of '06 I took my new A4 to AP Tuning in Lancaster, PA for the full APR Stage 2 install - updated ECU, intake and exhaust to bring the car to about 300 hp and 320 lb/ft. On the way home I was "testing" my purchase on the PA Turnpike and came across 2 kids in what I believe was probably Dad's Z-3 convertible who decided they wanted to play outrun.
I pulled in front of the pretty easily and as we were accelerating through about 140 I looked in the rear view just in time to see the roof blow clean off the car. They slammed on the brakes and skidded to the shoulder while I went on my way thinking about how they were going to explain this to dad.