kind of hate I had even asked about the area for moving...lol
Anyway- to the new part of the thread- The group in question is not about their religion except they use it to hide behind.
These are hard core business men. And I freely use "men" instead of business "people". It is very similar to Hedge fund take-overs. Except, even Hedge funds have to play by some rules.
Anyone talking about how a town or "their" town, being taken over, is not talking about the Jewish Religion. They are talking about a horrible group of men that do worse than suppress their women and have a business plan to do hostile takeovers without care of any man, woman, child and or Religion, that gets in their way. This group is equally harsh against Jewish people as they are against anyone else.
And yes, for those like "Tom" - who defend them, every resident has the right to be very upset at any group that purposely drive down property value and way of life in their town.
Not to speak for Tom- but I think his point is that they're following the law and rules of capitalism like everyone else.
There is nothing- nor should there be legally speaking- to stop any group, religious or otherwise, from moving in and become a dominant demographic anywhere in America. And I say this as someone with no religion.
IF people are breaking the law, in this country we resolve that in court. Now, I think a lot of people will say that the politics surrounding of that are questionable- OK! We need to vote then.
People make fun of "vote harder" but I can tell you...in both NY and NJ they are a kingmaker group and they will go with either party if they see a pol is responsive to their needs.
So here is my suggestion for people in Rockland or Ocean or wherever...vote...and bring people opposed to what's going on into the process. Because the other side is going in and has voting rates of 80%+.
Personally I have a big beef with the fact that NJ pays for private school busing. We wouldn't be paying for gender segregated busing in Lakewood BTW if, for example, all private school parents gave up busing....I haven't seen anyone volunteering for that here, but I'd sign up tomorrow. At the federal level, you have RLIUPA which is very generous in terms of building houses of worship for all religions. I'd pare it back- are others going to be OK with that when it comes to their house of worship? My house of worship being on River Road with a big block R, I won't see the effect, LOL.
Everywhere I ever lived in life, you look at the demographics, they change, and people there before resented it. Here in JC, a former mayor slammed people moving in as "interlopers." My neighborhood was historically Puerto Rican, Italian and Polish...now it is Asian plurality. Rutgers and NB, forget it- I was there during GS 1.0, and it's different. The town where I grew up was a lot of Reform Jewish Americans- now it's heavily Asian and most of the Jewish community is from the former USSR. Things change. The beautiful thing in NJ no matter who buys you probably made a lot on your home! I think some of it like "the member berries" from South Park. At least in my lifetime Lakewood was always Lakewood as it is today.