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OT: Any Burned Out Teachers in Here?

My Mom taught 30+ years in Newark at the elementary level. For almost her whole career she had classrooms close to and sometimes more than 40 kids. Without an aide.

She drove 40+ miles 5 days a week from Monmouth County and had dinner for three kids almost every night. We did do pizza on Fridays and/or sometimes going to the Monmouth Mall to eat and for her to shop.

She would laugh at those in the thread complaining about teachers. Literally. LOL

When she asked my Wife (a physics teacher at a magnet HS school in Monmouth County - 4 mile commute) about her class sizes my Wife said 16. My Mom laughed and called that a “snow day.” LOL

Sadly, she said she would have loved the occasional parental involvement/interference as she was like the mother for some kids.
When teachers were teachers! The profession has gotten way too soft.
 
When teachers were teachers! The profession has gotten way too soft.
To clarify, when I said this part:

“She would laugh at those in the thread complaining about teachers. Literally. LOL”

I meant those in the thread who aren’t teachers and are complaining.
 
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To clarify, when I said this part:

“She would laugh at those in the thread complaining about teachers. Literally. LOL”

I meant those in the thread who aren’t teachers and are complaining.
"When she asked my Wife (a physics teacher at a magnet HS school in Monmouth County - 4 mile commute) about her class sizes my Wife said 16. My Mom laughed and called that a “snow day.” LOL"

Real teachers from the past knew how to handle students and get better results. Congrats to your mom and those teachers from the golden age!
 
"When she asked my Wife (a physics teacher at a magnet HS school in Monmouth County - 4 mile commute) about her class sizes my Wife said 16. My Mom laughed and called that a “snow day.” LOL"

Real teachers from the past knew how to handle students and get better results. Congrats to your mom and those teachers from the golden age!
He’s still not getting it. LOL
 
Amusing that you don't understand what is going on. LOL!

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Yes tenure sounds like a great idea and especially to the teacher’s Union leaders … other than that it has caused immense problems and instituted a feeing in some teachers that they are impervious to outside scrutiny by the parents who pay their salaries through tax payer dollars.
 
My SIL is this tiny little thing and she somehow made it through 25 years of teaching middle school math at a public school.
And most teachers will tell you- middle school kids are the worst. lol

Worst years of my life (as a student). My oldest was in 7th grade during the pandemic - honestly, wish I could have had that back in the 90s.
 
When teachers were teachers! The profession has gotten way too soft.
With all due respect to my friend, T2K: experience from decades ago has nothing to do with and is nothing like what goes on in classrooms today. When I hear teachers talking, I'm constantly thinking "Man, in my day that kid would have been suspended for giving the teacher attitude like that!"

It's been demonstrated in post after post that it's a whole new ballgame today. The kids don't respect the teachers and in many cases nobody has their back. Throw a kid out for being defiant about putting his phone away and he's back in the room by the end of the period with a grin on his face. Tell a kid he can't go to the bathroom every single class session and there's an email from Mom before the end of the period, with the principal CCed.

There are plenty of "law and order" types of teachers nowadays who get chewed up and spit out. They are helpless to enforce discipline, no matter how much they believe in it.

I know you won't consider this; you already have your mind made up about everything related. But many in the thread might...
 
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With all due respect to my friend, T2K: experience from decades ago has nothing to do with and is nothing like what goes on in classrooms today. When I hear teachers talking, I'm constantly thinking "Man, in my day that kid would have been suspended for giving the teacher attitude like that!"

It's been demonstrated in post after post that it's a whole new ballgame today. The kids don't respect the teachers and in many cases nobody has their back. Throw a kid out for being defiant about putting his phone away and he's back in the room by the end of the period with a grin on his face. Tell a kid he can't go to the bathroom every single class session and there's an email from Mom before the end of the period, with the principal CCed.

There are plenty of "law and order" types of teachers nowadays who get chewed up and spit out. They are helpless to enforce discipline, no matter how much they believe in it.

I know you won't consider this, but many in the thread might...
Weak administration as it starts there. That said, many teachers today are not worth the price of admission
 
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That is the reason I can’t feel any sympathies for anyone in education . Teachers are not the problem for the most part it is the lack of holding students and their parents accountable.Who allowed these kids to become terrors in the classrooms. Middle school definitely the worst time to show no push back on those who disrupt their schoolmates and destroy teacher morale.
 
In a positive development, teachers are fleeing the largest union.


“The NEA’s strategy to retain members and, by extension, steady cash flow, relies on keeping teachers in the dark about the First Amendment rights affirmed in Janus.”

Wife gets stuff mailed to her all the time: “You qualify for this “thing”. Send us a check and we will explain what the “thing” is.”
 
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“The NEA’s strategy to retain members and, by extension, steady cash flow, relies on keeping teachers in the dark about the First Amendment rights affirmed in Janus.”

Wife gets stuff mailed to her all the time: “You qualify for this “thing”. Send us a check and we will explain what the “thing” is.”
you have to pass it to see whats in it
 
“The NEA’s strategy to retain members and, by extension, steady cash flow, relies on keeping teachers in the dark about the First Amendment rights affirmed in Janus.”

Wife gets stuff mailed to her all the time: “You qualify for this “thing”. Send us a check and we will explain what the “thing” is.”
You can go by what Fox said or what they left out
>A whopping 86% of members within the National Education Association report seeing more educators leave the industry since the start of the pandemic. These leaves are either due to career changes or early retirement. For comparison, in 1992, just 5% of teachers left the profession.<

Remember Fox is a known misinformation site and that media outlet even had to pay a huge amount for pushing lies.
Fox even admitted in court when their star commentator ( at the time) was sued for slander for what was claimed on his Fox program
The Legal Defense For Fox's Tucker Carlson: He Can't Be Literally Believed
>U.S. District Judge Mary Kay Vyskocil's opinion, leaning heavily on the arguments of Fox's lawyers: The "'general tenor' of the show should then inform a viewer that [Carlson] is not 'stating actual facts' about the topics he discusses and is instead engaging in 'exaggeration' and 'non-literal commentary.' "
She wrote: "Fox persuasively argues, that given Mr. Carlson's reputation, any reasonable viewer 'arrive with an appropriate amount of skepticism' about the statement he makes."
 
You can go by what Fox said or what they left out
>A whopping 86% of members within the National Education Association report seeing more educators leave the industry since the start of the pandemic. These leaves are either due to career changes or early retirement. For comparison, in 1992, just 5% of teachers left the profession.<

Remember Fox is a known misinformation site and that media outlet even had to pay a huge amount for pushing lies.
Fox even admitted in court when their star commentator ( at the time) was sued for slander for what was claimed on his Fox program
The Legal Defense For Fox's Tucker Carlson: He Can't Be Literally Believed
>U.S. District Judge Mary Kay Vyskocil's opinion, leaning heavily on the arguments of Fox's lawyers: The "'general tenor' of the show should then inform a viewer that [Carlson] is not 'stating actual facts' about the topics he discusses and is instead engaging in 'exaggeration' and 'non-literal commentary.' "
She wrote: "Fox persuasively argues, that given Mr. Carlson's reputation, any reasonable viewer 'arrive with an appropriate amount of skepticism' about the statement he makes."
Or....

You can go by what I just said when I read what was in my Wife's mailing from the NEA.🤷‍♂️

I was just commenting on the "in the dark" part from the link. As the mailing really didn't explain what they wanted her money for.
 
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Yes tenure sounds like a great idea and especially to the teacher’s Union leaders … other than that it has caused immense problems and instituted a feeing in some teachers that they are impervious to outside scrutiny by the parents who pay their salaries through tax payer dollars.
Or in my case, it helped me because I can now advocate for teachers by asking for classroom improvements, more support and give them honest information without fear or reprisal. There's 2 sides to this coin and positives and negatives to both.
 
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Or in my case, it helped me because I can now advocate for teachers by asking for classroom improvements, more support and give them honest information without fear or reprisal. There's 2 sides to this coin and positives and negatives to both.
Is that like the CTU demands for their upcoming contract? Quite sure former union organizing leader ,now Mayor , Johnson is fine with raising his constituents taxes in order to cover the costs. Let’s see how stupid Chicago’s citizens will be In 2024.
 
Most tenured teachers …. if they actually do attain tenure , probably are not following your lead. In today’s world it is all about how can I max it out.
 
Or in my case, it helped me because I can now advocate for teachers by asking for classroom improvements, more support and give them honest information without fear or reprisal. There's 2 sides to this coin and positives and negatives to both.
You can do the same without tenure. It's called the real world and it happens every day at every company.
 
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Most tenured teachers …. if they actually do attain tenure , probably are not following your lead. In today’s world it is all about how can I max it out.
Getting tenure = now you can be lazy without consequences
Some rise above this impulse, but most do not.
 
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It is undeniably a fact in which many teachers who achieve tenure ( the ultimate safety net) misuse its original intent . All one has to do is look around the educational system today and see the drop off in math, reading and overall subject competency. I don ‘t care about the Millburns, East/West Windsor townships examples nor the STEM schools .
 
It is undeniably a fact in which many teachers who achieve tenure ( the ultimate safety net) misuse its original intent . All one has to do is look around the educational system today and see the drop off in math, reading and overall subject competency. I don ‘t care about the Millburns, East/West Windsor townships examples nor the STEM schools .
Millburn et al are great schools due to the parents in the district. Nothing to do with the school system itself.
 
Or in my case, it helped me because I can now advocate for teachers by asking for classroom improvements, more support and give them honest information without fear or reprisal. There's 2 sides to this coin and positives and negatives to both.

The thing about tenure is it should be earned. There's probably a range in NJ, but I remember some of the time for tenure was quite short. IIRC it takes 7 years at colleges. It should be 3-5 years for K-12.
 
The thing about tenure is it should be earned. There's probably a range in NJ, but I remember some of the time for tenure was quite short. IIRC it takes 7 years at colleges. It should be 3-5 years for K-12.
It's 4 years and a day.
 
It is undeniably a fact in which many teachers who achieve tenure ( the ultimate safety net) misuse its original intent . All one has to do is look around the educational system today and see the drop off in math, reading and overall subject competency. I don ‘t care about the Millburns, East/West Windsor townships examples nor the STEM schools .
There's not one person who would say that there aren't people who are coasting because of tenure or some people that should be canned are kept because they can't be fired. However, what about the school districts that RIF all non-tenured teachers the summer before they reach tenure? That happens too. Nothing like creating an ideal learning environment for student by shitcanning their teachers every few years.
 
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Millburn et al are great schools due to the parents in the district. Nothing to do with the school system itself.
There in lies the real distinction between success versus failure. If going by scores ( and they should) contrary to the recent past narrative that tests are unfair let’s remind all Rutgers grads here. We all had testing in school and it mattered. Then along came this new thinking that certain groups were being denied because tests are for another stupid idea biased… a favored group of students who had more access to the things which helped them score higher on standardized tests. Now it’s we need more tenured teachers because somehow they then will work their asses off. Will never happen.
 
Getting tenure = now you can be lazy without consequences
Some rise above this impulse, but most do not.
Please state the numbers for some vs. most. Otherwise, your statement is just hyperbole. That means exaggeration in case you forgot from the English classes we took together at the U.
 
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There's not one person who would say that there aren't people who are coasting because of tenure or some people that should be canned are kept because they can't be fired. However, what about the school districts that RIF all non-tenured teachers the summer before they reach tenure? That happens too. Nothing like creating an ideal learning environment for student by shitcanning their teachers every few years.
Sure… but most somehow get that safety net. Even if it means another year or two paying your dues.
 
Please state the numbers for some vs. most. Otherwise, your statement is just hyperbole. That means exaggeration in case you forgot from the English classes we took together at the U.
The new cry… show me those stats.
 
There in lies the real distinction between success versus failure. If going by scores ( and they should) contrary to the recent past narrative that tests are unfair let’s remind all Rutgers grads here. We all had testing in school and it mattered. Then along came this new thinking that certain groups were being denied because tests are for another stupid idea biased… a favored group of students who had more access to the things which helped them score higher on standardized tests. Now it’s we need more tenured teachers because somehow they then will work their asses off. Will never happen.
If the narrative that you guys spin is that the good districts don't count because they have strong parental involvement and they are the reasons for successful schools, why is your first move to vilify the teachers in "bad" districts instead of targeting the parents?
 
The new cry… show me those stats.
Exactly, I want the mayor to show me the stats? Why do you get to talk with a bunch of what ifs instead of solid info? At least make up a pretend article or something instead of making excuses.
 
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All those high achieving schools for the most part would have stable households with more than likely two parents who provide discipline and guidance to the child. Teachers can’t do it all . Some actually do work hard and try . There are still too many who don’t care.
 
If the narrative that you guys spin is that the good districts don't count because they have strong parental involvement and they are the reasons for successful schools, why is your first move to vilify the teachers in "bad" districts instead of targeting the parents?
We aren’t spinning anything. They all count . It’s a fact those productive ( and there are many in nj) school districts do have someone guiding them . It may be two parents, might be one parent ir even grand parents . You can ‘t deny this fact . It is documented by social workers, medical professionals and schools themselves. NJ spends a tremendous amount of taxpayer money on providing a good education . Even in school systems deemed to be underachieving. You pay school taxes lately?
 
BRW: Did I not say teachers aren’t completely the reason for poor scores? But they are a part of it along with the higher ups who are in charge. Who should we blame ? Or who would you prefer we cast the blame to the kids?
 
We aren’t spinning anything. They all count . It’s a fact those productive ( and there are many in nj) school districts do have someone guiding them . It may be two parents, might be one parent ir even grand parents . You can ‘t deny this fact . It is documented by social workers, medical professionals and schools themselves. NJ spends a tremendous amount of taxpayer money on providing a good education . Even in school systems deemed to be underachieving. You pay school taxes lately?
Once again, I'm not disagreeing with you. I work in a great school district as I've stated a baziillion times before. I know the positives and the negatives.

1). I'm asking why you and T2K assume that "most" of the teachers are taking advantage of tenure instead of "some" and if it's true tell me stats to back up that's this is the reality.

2). I also want to know why you blame teachers for the fault of bad test scores, when parents and the way they raise their children is a much more significant factor as you stated in the good school district argument.

3). And yes, I have paid school taxes recently. I'm aware of how high they are.

I'm really just trying to figure out at this point if you're fully committed to this argument or just trolling and breaking balls like T2K does.
 
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